Nothing is right in this world today. Even when you do the right things, you will still be at the wrong end. Someone drops a wallet, you pick it up to give it back to the rightful owner, then comes someone else accusing you of stealing, causing you to be the one who gets beat up instead of getting a thank you for doing what's right. That's just an example by the way. Nothing to do with me or anybody I know.
I'm not trying to be negative here. Once in a while, we need to get a huge dose of reality to realize that nothing is as it seems. I'm not asking you to stop being nice. I want you to be aware that the outcome you get might not be as expected.
Someone doesn't like you, you try hard to get his/her approval. You do everything to make that person change his/her perception towards you. In the end, the person might like you or hate you even more. Let people think what they think, you are who you are.
You need to realize the possibility of the negative outcome in every situation. It's not to make you feel even worse about yourself but to prepare yourself for the worst so that you don't feel so bad, so that you could get past whatever horrible things that are being thrown at you.
If you're not, don't worry.
Just listen to Katy Perry. After that you will be. =)
ps: lama gila tak update blog. readers dulu pun dah lari. haha.